Abortion survivor laments Super Bowl ad rejection
"Can you look me in the eye and tell me that I shouldn't be alive?" Presley asks in the ad made by Faces of Choice. "We are the survivors of choice. We are the faces of choice," abortion survivors say in the ad.
The group's founder, Lyric Gillett , told the Washington Times she repeatedly met additional terms set forth by Fox and in the end was not given a suitable reason why the ad was rejected.
Though he was disappointed, Presley said he wasn't surprised Fox Sports chose not to air the ad. He hopes the chatter that has followed the decision will still get the message into American homes, especially as pro-life people direct others to the various abortion survivor videos at facesofchoice.org.
"Our prayer is that it still has an impact and it still shows people the truth of what abortion is," he said.
When Presley's birth mother was two months pregnant and in South Korea, she had a curettage abortion, "the type of abortion where a doctor goes into a mother's womb and rips the baby apart and brings him out in pieces," Presley told the TEXAN.
Presley's birth mother was sent home, but a few months later she realized the abortion "had actually failed and I was still very much alive," he said. Presley was born in 1995 and placed in a foster home in South Korea. Randy and Kathy Presley of Norman, Okla., adopted Presley when he was 13 months old, and raised him along with nine other adopted and two biological children.
Presley has a deformed arm, which is believed to have been caused by the type of abortion attempted. Throughout his childhood, he struggled secretly with low self-esteem, thinking he was less than others because of his deformity. "I thought I wouldn't go anywhere in life," he said.
When he was 13 years old, Presley's parents told him he had survived an abortion. Though he was grateful to know his story, the news sent him deeper into darkness.
"It became apparent to me at that time that my life actually was worthless because the people who should have loved me the most thought my life was so 'unvaluable' they tried to take it," Presley said.
As a young teenager, Presley developed hatred toward anyone who was pro-choice, including abortion doctors, post-abortive women and Planned Parenthood workers. "I thought they were the scum of the earth because it was people like them who made me the way I was, so broken," he said.
All the while, he continued projecting a good church kid façade at Trinity Baptist Church in Norman, where his father was a worship pastor. The summer after his sophomore year of high school, God got Presley's attention at Falls Creek Baptist Conference Center in Oklahoma. The camp pastor that week talked about the Greek word dunamis and how God imparts in the believer the power to overcome the trials of the world.
"I remember thinking I didn't have that in my life," Presley said.
He accepted Christ as his Savior that week and started seeing changes in his outlook. He realized his value was not in what he did but in the fact that he was created in the image of a God who had a purpose for his life, he said.
"He has proven his love to me by dying on a cross for the punishment of my sins when I was far from him," Presley said.
As God worked in his heart, Presley was convicted of a hatred toward his birth parents for the choices they made. Forgiven by God, Presley felt the least he could do was forgive his parents. "I found forgiveness there," Presley said, "and I found healing there."
Presley graduated from Criswell College with a psychology degree in 2018, is married to Bethany and works as a student success manager at Criswell while serving as a youth pastor.
He lamented the 60 million lives lost to abortion in the United States since the Roe v. Wade decision in 1973.
"We live in a culture that tells women, 'If you want to get ahead in life, if you want to go anywhere in life, you have to take a life,'" Presley said. "We live in a culture that tells men, 'Fulfill the passions of your flesh, and you are not held responsible for your actions.'
"We live in a world that applauds evil as seen by its support of the taking of the most innocent of human beings' lives. That's a culture of death."
The only light strong enough to overcome that kind of darkness, he said, is the Gospel of Jesus Christ.
"If you're a follower of Christ, that light has been placed within you, and it is your calling and your duty to take that light into the world," Presley said, pointing to Matthew 5.
People inspired by the ad's message can get involved in the pro-life movement by looking for crisis pregnancy centers in their cities where they can get involved or by joining pregnancy help or adoption support ministries in their local churches, Presley said.
"Get involved in those ways. If there aren't those ministries in your church, maybe God would call you to start those," he said. "Love your neighbor in a tangible way so that as we speak for truth, as we affirm the value of human life, the world knows it by the way we value the lives of the born."